Here are answers to the questions we receive most often. Please contact us if your question is not covered below.
A lavender marriage is a marriage or long-term partnership entered into for personal, social, family, or practical reasons rather than a traditional romantic relationship. Every arrangement is unique and should be based on honesty, mutual understanding, and consent.
Any adult seeking a genuine lavender marriage or similar partnership arrangement may apply. We welcome lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, asexual, queer, and other adults looking for a respectful lavender marriage.
Every application is manually reviewed before the profile becomes visible to other members. This helps reduce spam and maintain a genuine and respectful community. However, members should still independently verify important information before making major decisions.
Only approved and logged-in members can browse profiles. Your email address and Instagram ID remain hidden until you and another member both express interest.
Your email address and Instagram ID remain private until both members express interest in each other. Contact details are unlocked only after a mutual match.
Yes. Your public profile displays your nickname. Your email address and Instagram ID are not shown publicly and remain private until a mutual match.
No payment is required to submit your application. If your application is eligible after review, a âš30 fee is required to continue the application process. Payment does not guarantee approval or a match.
After a mutual match, you can report the person from your My Matches page. Reports are private and are reviewed only by the Lavender Marriage administrator.
Yes. You can submit profile changes from the My Account page. Your existing profile remains unchanged while the request is reviewed, and approved changes will then become visible to other members.
Yes. You can deactivate your profile from the My Account page. It will immediately become hidden from other members, and you will be logged out. You can reactivate your profile later by logging back in.
After both members express interest, their email addresses and Instagram IDs become available in My Matches. You can then choose where and how to continue the conversation.
Yes. You can withdraw an interest before a mutual match is created. After matching, you can use the Unmatch option from the My Matches page.
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